By Andrea Pigneri
When I was first interested in football, I knew I was in for something completely different. In all my years of sports, never before had I played something that required so much padding and demanded so much contact. At the time, I had recently quit rowing for U of L because my grades were suffering. I was desperate to put my energy into another activity that would not be as time consuming. I decided to try football.
Even writing this I get that same feeling I had the first time I walked into practice. The feeling of “what the hell have I gotten myself into?” I remember telling myself to relax, because if I did not like it after two weeks I would quit.
I also remember seeing all different types of women. Big, small, tough, rough, gentle, motherly, pretty and unique. I was confused because I could not figure out how all of us would piece together onto the field to create a functional team. I was too accustomed to sports that demanded one body shape, like in basketball how girls need to be tall and quick to do well.
I put in my two weeks of practice, which became four weeks, which grew into four months. I was beginning to understand football and how intricate the game is. My teammates were not limited by their body size; instead everyone was privileged by what they had to offer. Big ladies were proud to be a part of the line. Small ladies were excited to run the ball. Coordinated women were thrilled to catch the ball and defend others. Everyone had their own unique job that had to be done to perfection for us to reach our goal. And everyone was willing to give their personal best.
Our season finally started, and every game was a blast! I finally got to do all the things that other sports would not allow me to do. I was not limited by fouls, stroke rate, or even strict umpires. I had the freedom to literally unleash myself and achieved the best my body could give. I was doing what felt good and made me smile after every game.
My team did well and made it to the playoffs, but could not afford the trip. Despite how depressing that was, I reflected on the entire season and realized how lucky I am to play football. Not only is the game so fun to play, but I learned much that applies to my personal life.
I learned to look at what everyone has to offer instead of their limits. I learned that what you are willing to give matters more then what you really have. I learned that teamwork will always be what matters most when achieving objectives. But the best insight I gained was more confidence. I learned to let go of all the things society demands, and do what makes me better and happier. And most importantly, do what is needed instead of what is easy.
Now football is such a huge piece of my life. I absolutely love the game and it has taught me so much. If you would like to join us as a player, coach, staff member, or donate to our team, please contact Andi at (502) 648-1604. We are proudly the Louisville Nightmare, part of the International Women’s Football League. Check us out at louisvillenightmare.com and see the league at iwflsports.com.
Football is something I will carry for the rest of my life, both memories and lessons. I hope that other people, regardless of the activity, can gain the same enrichment as I did from football.
